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Cognitive Distortion
Mechanisms for Addicts
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"Doing a line will make me feel really
good." - This is Fortune Telling - the
addict is predicting something that may not be true. It is possible
that doing a line will just make him want another, or it may elicit
depression or self-loathing.
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"I really shouldn't have that beer" -
"Shouldn't" is moralistic and often elicits a
rebellious state, in which cravings are experienced as powerful and the
addict's self-image promotes relapse.
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"I'll only have one" -
Fortune Telling
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"Life is so boring, I deserve a little
fun." - Emotional Reasoning - life is not
boring, you are experiencing boredom [could it be due to your addictive
lifestyle?]
Methods to Combat Distortions
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Identify the
distortion- write down the thoughts and diagnose which
distortion it is.
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Examine the
evidence - Assume nothing! Actually examine the evidence.
Use your rational processing system to consider the lessons of cause and
effect your history has taught you.
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Double
standard method - talk to yourself in the same compassionate way
would talk to a friend in the same situation.
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Define Terms
- what do the words in the belief that is motivating me actually mean?
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Survey Others
- how do others feel about this issue?
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Experiment
- test the validity of the belief.
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Thinking in
Shades of Grey - don't beat yourself up with extreme thoughts.
Escaping addiction is hard, if you have a set back think of what you
learned from the lapse; be aware of and encouraged by the battles you won.
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